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Why Do We Emphasize Metta Mediation at Hope Rehab?

How Metta Meditation Helps Us Develop a Kinder Attitude Towards Ourselves

by┬аPaul Garrigan

The Importance of Developing Metta in Recovery

Metta (loving-kindness) meditation is one of the core practices we teach as part of the┬аHope Mindful Compassion program. Most of us who end up in rehab will have developed a bad attitude towards ourselves along the way (it may have been why we turned to alcohol and drugs in the first place), and this tendency towards self-loathing means we are at high-risk of sabotaging our future happiness. Metta meditation teaches us to begin valuing ourselves more highly so we are far less likely to settle for the sad existence of addiction.

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The Difference between Loving-Kindness and Compassion

The words┬атАШcompassionтАЩ┬аand тАШkindnessтАЩ tend to be used interchangeably in everyday speech, but in our program we emphasize a specific meaning for each. тАШKindnessтАЩ is having a friendly attitude towards ourselves or other people while тАШcompassionтАЩ is our willingness to be with our own suffering or the suffering of others. It is possible to be kind without being compassionate тАУ e.g. doing something we think is тАШniceтАЩ for somebody without considering if it is actually what the person wants.

Metta is one of four mental states we can deliberately cultivate in order to improve our lives after addiction. These desirable attitudes are collectively known in Buddhism as the┬аBrahma Viharas┬аand include loving kindness (metta), compassion (karuna), sympathetic joy (mudita), and equanimity (upekkha). One of the best definitions about what each of these mean is offered by┬аGill Fronsdal

Why Do We Emphasize Metta Mediation at Hope Rehab?

If we do metta meditation every day, it can help us develop each of these four mental states, but it is particularly suited for developing loving kindness. This is why we also practice┬аTonglen┬аto help us develop compassion and mindfulness practices to increase our equanimity.

Benefits of Metta Meditation

People have been doing metta meditation for thousands of years and here are some of the traditionally reported benefits of the practice:

Somatic Metta Meditation

We practice somatic metta meditation here at Hope Rehab. We want it to involve the physical sensation of feeling goodwill тАУ this makes the practice far more powerful. As we do this, we start to feel our heart opening up, and there is a real sense of rawness and vulnerability. By focusing on the somatic aspect of loving kindness, we are also able to access very deep states of consciousness.

The method we use to make our metta meditation more somatic is to imagine we are breathing directly into the heart. As we breathe in, we notice any tension in the chest area (armoring around our heart), and we let this tension go as we breath out. We then combine the heart breathing with the metta slogans which are:

We begin somatic meditation by just focusing on ourselves (level one), but later on (level two), we include others. You can practice these mediation at home by visiting our┬аguided meditation page.

Why Do We Emphasize Metta Mediation at Hope Rehab? by Paul G

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